How to become his unforgettable, without doing more

You’re exhausted.
You’re overfunctioning.
And somewhere along the way, you became the invisible service provider — not because you don’t care, but because you care too much.

You organise everything. Anticipate everything. You’re the planner, the packer, the permission-slip-reminder.
All in the hope that one day someone will look at you and finally see what you've carried.

But here’s the trap:

You’ve been taught that the more you do, the more you’ll be loved.
That being needed is the same as being cherished.

And so, you've been modelling the behaviour you want to receive:

You educate yourself on communication and hold back your needs (so you won’t seem “too much”).
But instead of being adored… you’re managing everything. You’ve become the concierge, not the courtesan.

The frameworks, rituals, and feminine recalibrations inside The Courtesan’s Code won’t ask you to work harder, speak softer, or shrink yourself to be adored.

They’ll invite you to lay down the role of the manager, organiser and fixer — and return to the woman who evokes devotion simply by being in her presence.

Because the one who manages become invisible
But the one who knows how to receive?
She gets everything.

The Courtesan wasn’t loved because she worked harder.
She was loved because she understood the power of her presence.

She wasn’t the mother of his needs.
She was the keeper of his longing.

What you really crave isn’t control — it’s consideration.

You want to be adored.

You want to be generously resourced — without guilt.

You want to be the pause in his breath, not the person who packs the snacks. plans the dates and accommodates for his breadcrumbing

And that’s what The Courtesan’s Code teaches:

How to do less — and be deeply seen, supported, and desired.

If you find yourself thinking…

‘All men are useless, ultimately and I don’t really see the point in them anymore’

You are not alone in this! In fact the women in South Korea started an entire movement swearing off men forever, but The Courtesan’s Code gently reminds you that you don’t need to give up on men forever, that they can in fact become powerful allies.

‘I am the most capable and competent person I know, it’s better that I just everything myself. Besides, asking for help makes me like I owe something to someone and I also have no interest in appearing weak, especially in front of men.’

The Courtesan’s Code which is about remembering your feminine power is the opposite of weakness, but it’s the kind of strength women have been conditioned out of and lies hidden beneath overfunctioning and hyper independence.

‘ i have everything I want, I got the job and/or the house, and/or the partner and/or the kids and everyone tells me I should be happy, but I feel something fundamental is missing. I feel guilty for not being happier.’

This isn’t about negating the things you do have, you’ve done incredibly well to get the things you were told would make you happy, and sometimes they do, but very often we lose ourselves along the way,, it happens slowly and steadily, not all at once. The Courtesan’s Code is about finding your way back to youself, not by doing yet another yoga class, but by making some fundamental shifts in your beliefs and very practically changing the way your energy pathways are functioning right now.

‘ I have learned all there is to know about attachment theory, I have been to therapy, I do yoga, breathwork and pilates. I have adjusted the way I communicate and sent my partner book recommendations, tried different approaches while dating. but nothing works, I still end up ghosted, ignored or in big fights with men.’

Becuase women are so used to reflecting on what they can do better, they believe deep down it is up to them to fix relationships. They are conditioned to look within and adapt, but it doesn’t work. Reclaiming the true and powerful feminine within is a much bigger shift than adapting behaviour.

If your body is whispering yes...

It’s time to stop striving and start receiving.

The Courtesan’s Code

A 3-Month Private Coaching Immersion with Cherryl

This isn’t about doing more. It’s about remembering the woman you were before the world convinced you to be everything for everyone else.
It’s about unlearning the hustle for love—and reclaiming the magnetism of your presence.

In The Courtesan’s Code, you'll learn to:

Master the art of receiving – so you're resourced without guilt, and desired without striving
Transmute emotion into power – emotional alchemy that turns overwhelm into clarity and grace
Shape influence with elegance – shift dynamics without overexplaining or overfunctioning
Decode your inner desires – know what you truly crave, and hold it with confidence

Because this isn’t about chasing admiration.
It’s about becoming the woman who evokes devotion simply by being fully in her essence.

What’s Included:

Weekly 1:1 Coaching Calls
Deep, transformational sessions tailored to your life, your relationships, your edges.

Monday–Friday Voxer Access
Daily touchpoints with Cherryl for coaching-in-the-moment, voice note reflections, and soulful recalibrations.

Bespoke Tools, Practices & Feminine Frameworks
Not a one-size-fits-all method. You’ll receive curated resources that meet you where you are on your Courtesan journey.

This is your invitation to stop managing life—and start embodying the pulse that moves it.

Are you ready to become unforgettable?